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Sunday, August 29, 2010

The first B-Day in Canada

i would like to tell you my 17th birthday .  I celebrated with my friends. What made it so special was that  it was the first time i celebrated B-day without my family . First of all , i was worried and i miss my parents , this feeling is very strong 。I  never forgot that day ,we dined out in a chinese restaurant , we ordered many perfect dishes , by the way ,we also enjoyed a big chocolate cake。 My friends knew exactly how to make me happy because i could trade you the world with a yummy chocolate cake . You know as usual for what a birthday girl will do , i made three wishes when we sang the Happy Birthday song.After that ,we made a lot of pic and chatted over lots of stuff like our future plans, academic study and job hunting. That day i recevied asome very cute gifts from my friends, such as a stuffed teddy bear,a perfume with  very awesome bottle. I  think it's the one which i never be forgotten.

welcome to my blog .

HI .   <3  WELCOME  MY BLOG .       ❤❤

I'm a freshman in there ,   my favorite color is green it's also my luky color .So you can see my blog design color is green .  As for the title  ,    i love  Sunflowers  because it's Gifts of radiant warmth, sunflowers are the happiest of flowers, and their meanings include loyalty and longevity. They are unique in their ability to provide energy in the form of nourishment and vibrance, an attribute which mirrors the sun and the energy provided .



THE  LEGEND OF THE SUNFLOWER
           Once, there were 2 lovers who would meet each other everyday at a hill where nothing grows.   The  man’s name was Lee and the woman’s name was Mary. They would always meet at that hill from sundown and depart with each other on sunrise. Mary was a beautiful girl. She was the daughter of a rich nobleman. Lee, on the other hand was the son of a poor farmer. Their families never allowed them to be with each other.Their love was too strong. So that is why they only see each other from sundown
  till’ sunrise. Lee always says Mary was more beautiful than any flower.
      One day, Mary told Lee that her father has set her with a marriage interview with the son of another rich nobleman. She told him to wait for her because she will come back for him in 3 days time. Lee did wait for her on the 1st day. On the 2nd day, he had a thought. He thought that if Mary was able to get out on that marriage interview, her father might arrange another. So he said to himself that he shall marry Mary.He set out on a journey to find her the most beautiful ring. Something that he knew her father cant disagree on. He knew that even if their parents wont agree to their marriage, Mary will. And they can get secretly married somewhere else. He also knew that she will wait for him even though he agreed that they meet there. He knew that Mary knew how much he loved her that she will wait for his arrival.
 The man Mary’s father wanted her to marry was Kyle. He was very much in love with Mary he wanted her to be with him. But when Mary refused, on the 1st day, he knew there was someone else whom she loved. He told his servant to search for the man whom Mary loved, and the servant did so. That servant went to Mary’s father and asked if there was anyone in love with her. The father knew Kyle wouldn’t me jealous of a farmer’s son so he Told the servant about Lee. The faithful servant told Kyle about Lee and he ordered him to kill him.
      The servant went to Lee’s home and asked where he was. Lee’s father told him thathe went out on a journey to the east. The servant went east and found Lee hikingin the woods. He ambushed him and murdered him.On the 3rd day, Mary went to the hill and waited for Lee. When he did not come shestill waited even more. She relied on the sun to give her hope that Lee will come for her and he hadn’t left her. Days past and she still hasn’t left that hill. She continued waiting for him.
     That day, the faithful servant came past that hill to do some shopping for his master. He saw Mary waiting in the hill. He came up to her and asked her what was it that she was waiting for. She told him that she was waiting for the man of her dreams to meat her there. The servant knew whom she was speaking of. He felt terrible guilt in the insides of his body when he saw her hopeful face. He didn’t
know it but, he too, was in love her. He couldn’t stand her looking so hopeful so he told her what he was ordered to do and what he has done. When he finished telling the story the girl wept and the servant couldn’t stand her face so he left the girl cried and cried until she died there a few days later.When her father realized she was missing, he asked who was the last person who saw her and where he/she has seen her. The servant said that 2 days ago, he saw her in that hill. The whole town went to the hill where nothing grows and saw in the middle of a puddle there was 1 flower. Yellow in color and it was pointing to the sun. Only 1 person knew why that was that. The servant knew because the girl had wept
in that place and her tears made a puddle. She died and her body turned into a flower that follows the sun like she has done.
     He named the flower sunflower because it was a beautiful flower that followed the sun like Mary.


     

when I was in the plane

 WAITING ,HOPING. THINKING AND CRYING
The second time to go back to Canada, different feelings…




At the first time, I was carrying the feeling that was excited. I like freedom. Leaving my own home is just like a bird leaves a net. No one can control me anymore. I was happy to get rid of my mom’s arms. When I got there, I realized the life was not easy to go through. Such as everything should be managed by me; I cannot call anyone to help me, or others look me down. I was crying. I wanted my mom to come to me though it was impossible for me. I decided to wipe my tear and cheer myself. It was the first time that I considered so carefully. Without mom, I washed my clothes; without mom, I cleaned my own room; without mom, I managed my suitcases; without mom, I talked with others I didn’t know… There was a big leap I had to jump. It was hard~~~



But I proofed I could do it. It is sure possibly for a student who studies aboard to deal with that or he/she cannot live without others.


I'm glad that i  had some friends who always be with me and when i faces diffclut,they will help me and encourage me to get over problems . i'm pround of them .I totally understand what the actual friendship is. That is to give hearts to you, never be angry because of money, care you all the time  and help you in their best effort.

you're the best  gift  that god gives me, i love you

i'm not alone anymore in this  Strange city because you .Thanks for your love and care.